I haven't updated my space for several days due to my busy work in design and preparation for the final exams.

Just now I read two articles, of which one is in the QQ zone and the other is in my dear Sister Shirley's MSN space. Both of them r kinda negative and depressive.

For the first: trouble in hunting for a chance for internship. Actually I already know some difficulties they came across in finding a place for internship from my classmates. Frankly speaking, it is thought that most of my schoolfellows r not so brilliant but another important factor is that the university we r studying in seems of low repute in this field. That’s why they got refusal just after the employer hears the name of this university, regardless of their actual abilities. What’s worse, without being asked to prove identity, they got a completely different reply in the same institutes when pretending to be students of Tonji University, which was actually warm welcome instead of refusal.

This is similar to what my sister Shirley wrote in her blog: Are people born equal? She said that people were actually not born equal, both materially and spiritually, because of their different family background. actually, I agree that those lucky kids can have a bright future even though they are not studying hard, they can lead a more comfortable life though they don’t work hard…but I can never believe people’s fates have been decided the moment they are born. I hold strong belief that in most cases fortune and wealth can only be obtained within three generations ,which will be splurged by beaus of the next generation in this kindred( or family) due to ignorance and backslide caused by the luxurious life.

I try to strive with all negative factors because I believe it is only efforts and positive actions that can change the situation and prompt ourselves in all aspects, from which the lost equality can finally be regained.

Hardships may be real disasters in our lives but not always the barriers which hinder us from gaining prospective success. A lot of things can be learned from them. Actually it is hardships and adversities that greatly shaped us out of juvenility and inexperience into maturation. From this aspect, hardships and adversities can be turned into treasure and foundation of our career. All rest with how we react to them and what actions have been taken.

What is a winner?

A winner is not afraid to do his own thinking and to use his own knowledge. He can separate facts from opinion and doesn't pretend to have all the answers. He listens to others, evaluates what they say, but comes to his own conclusions. While he can admire and respect other people, he is not totally defined, bound, or awed by them.

Never give up!

"I can not "never does anything worthwhile; but "I will try” accomplishes wonders. Let us remember that we shall meet difficulties all through life. They are in the pathway of everyone. If we will only try and keep trying, we shall be sure to conquer and overcome every difficulty we meet.